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September 2010

Just as Beautiful: Britain's first plus-size magazine → uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com

weighty:

This is an interesting standpoint. Do “plus size” magazines, shows, websites, etc. do more to help body acceptance, or to hurt it. Is compartmentalizing people based on body-size beneficial, or should we look for a more inclusive approach? Or a blend? These are great issues, and I think Holesintheground makes some great points. I do think though, it’s nice to celebrate the beauty of being big, as often fat people are considered to only ever be ugly, but does this work against an idea of inclusion? 

holesintheground:

I hate this shit. 

Creating a magazine purely for ‘plus size’ (hate the phrase too) women is just like saying that ‘plus size’ women have no place in ‘normal’ magazines.

It completely misses the point. The issue is that magazines as a whole don’t cater to women of all sizes. I can’t imagine that there are many women who will now be happy that they have a ‘plus size’ magazine to read, they want to be able to read the same magazines as everyone, but just to be included and represented within them.

It also promotes the annoying hate that different groups of women have for each other. As someone who is relatively slim (I’m a size 10-12) I really hate all this anti skinny nonsense. SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST SKINNY. All this ‘you’re not a real woman unless you have curves’. We’re not all blessed with buxom breasts and bountiful booties; we are all different shapes and sizes, and the sooner we learn to live with that, the happier we will all be.

Magazines need to change. This is not the right way to do it.

End rant.

If we wait for magazines to change enough that fat women (not just marginally fat women, but death fatz as well) are represented frequently and fairly in the mainstream media, then we will be holding our breath forever. There is nothing wrong with carving out a niche to provide fat people with representation that reflects them.

Yes, magazines need to change, but until our fatty wallets speak loud enough for them to hear (and these magazines provide us an opportunity to demonstrate our purchasing power), then they won’t make any significant or lasting changes.

Just as there are plus-sized clubs to give fat people a comfortable place to party before they are emotionally ready to venture out into the “normal” clubs, these magazine may give a much-needed boost to our self-esteem before venturing out into the “normal” magazines, and I fully support them.

Sep 30, 201026 notes
Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short. Wear shirts and boots, because it's okay to be a boy. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, because you think that being a girl is degrading. But secretly you'd love to know what it's like, wouldn't you? What it feels like to be a girl.

I was once banned from attending any school functions at an all-girl’s school, but since all my friends from that school were going, I went in drag.

I can tell you right now, from experience that I would never want to dress like a girl again, not because it’s degrading, but because it’s too fucking uncomfortable. I pray that I never have a reason to wear panty hose ever again.

Sep 30, 2010121 notes
Weighty: Weight loss surgery linked to suicide → weighty.tumblr.com

weighty:

This is really upsetting. Weight loss surgery is not a magic bullet, neither is being thin. If you’ve had weight loss surgery, and had a positive experience, great! Please share with people considering it why and how it was positive. But if you’re overweight, and considering surgery, please do…

Sep 30, 201010 notes
Happy shoppings → fiercefatties.com

Excerpt:

One of my two jobs (not including the job of student) is working at a clothing store. This store caters mostly to straight sizes, but carries clothes up to size 20. Yes, it would be easy to guess where I work, but I’m avoiding naming it so I can maintain a thin veneer of privacy on the internet. So while I don’t work at a plus-size clothing store, I do often interact with customers looking for sizes 14 and up.

…

And yet, despite all of that, I have found in the months that I’ve worked in the store, plus-size women tend to be a lot less overtly self-hating than thinner women. Not that all women under size 14 are uniformally self-loathing, but every time I’ve heard a “I can’t wear that with this gut!” or a “I wish I wasn’t so fat, then I could buy those leggings” or even, memorably, a “Can you find me something that hides how huge I am?” they have come from the mouth of someone wearing a size considered “normal” by society.

…

Learn more at Fierce, Freethinking Fatties.

Sep 30, 20105 notes
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State attorney launches bizarre Internet war on openly gay college student → news.yahoo.com

rabblevolunteer:

jonathan-cunningham:

An assistant state attorney general for Michigan has created a blog devoted to discrediting the University of Michigan’s student body president, who is openly gay.

Assistant Attorney General Andrew Shirvell has called student Chris Armstrong a “pervert” and “Satan’s representative” on his blog, and admits to protesting outside the 21-year-old’s home. He scours Armstrong’s Facebook page and Armstrong’s friends’ Facebook pages and posts defaced photos of Armstrong on his site.

“You might wonder how is this man still employed in the attorney general’s office,” CNN’s Anderson Cooper observed in a Tuesday-night segment on Shirvell.

Michigan Attorney General Mike Cox, Shirvell’s boss, provided a written statement to CNN calling Shirvell’s opinions “his alone,” not those of the AG’s office. “But his immaturity and lack of judgment outside the office are clear,” Cox’s statement added. Cox declined to comment further.

State laws protect employees’ rights to express political opinions in off-hours.

Thanks to Nemotheory for the link!  I hope you don’t mind that I changed the title.

I have to say that this is pretty strange.  I realize that the employees of the state have protected speech, and I don’t want to change that, but it really seems as though someone with this much of a problem with homosexuals shouldn’t be working in an Attorney General’s office.  I wonder how this would have been reacted to if Shirvell was harassing the student because he was black instead of gay.

Nothing says, “I’m a mature state official” like drawing swastikas on pictures of a gay college student who already won his bid for student council president. That’s like a sad step up from drawing devil horns in your yearbook on the pictures of the people that made fun of you in middle school. Geez. 

What. The. Fuck.

Shouldn’t the state attorney be too busy, you know, prosecuting criminals for this shit?

Sep 29, 201024 notes
Young Man — → fiercefatties.com

Excerpt:

I had an interesting experience last night and I wanted to share some observations. I wrote on my blog about how our family has joined the YMCA and I’m interested to put Health at Every Size to the test. Regarding exercise, HAES recommends that you find a way to move your body that you find fun, as opposed to exercising as a way to expend calories.

…

What I found surprised me. My mother-in-law belongs to a traditional gym and I’ve been in it once. As with other gyms I’ve seen, there are a few people on the heavy side, but the majority of members seem to be thin and/or muscular.

…

As I self-consciously toured the facility, I began to notice something reassuring about the Y: significant numbers of active fatties.

…

I knew water aerobics is a popular class for the Death Fatz among us, but I had never actually seen one in action. So, when I peeked in on V, she was at home with 20 or so other large women all splashing and flapping and lunging and bouncing. And she looked like she was having a great time too.

Best of all, the instructor at the front kept getting barraged by the impressive waves the women created.

Learn more at Fierce, Freethinking Fatties.

Sep 29, 2010
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Sep 28, 2010
Oh Diablos NO! → fiercefatties.com

Excerpt:

I had the misfortune of choosing what anybody could have been forgiven for thinking was a mockumentary called “Killer at Large: Why Obesity is Americas Greatest Threat.“

Worse than terrorism; shifty and hiding in the shrubbery like a quiet serial killer; ready to pounce on you without warning.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything so alarmist and so badly executed as this film. Well,  maybe “Battleship Earth,” but that’s a story for another day.

…

Then suddenly, like something out of a bad “South Park” episode, they cut to a crudely executed cartoon straight out of a grammar school projector archives with cavemen hunting prey.

The hulking grunting Cro-Magnon is shown extending his historically inaccurate limbs as he sprints Prefontaine-style toward some sort of antelope.

…

Has anyone else seen this? Am I being fair or was I just in a bad mood because it was too late to watch “The Royal Tenenbaums” again?

Learn more at Fierce, Freethinking Fatties.

Sep 28, 2010
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Degree Deodorant Wants to Protect Me From My Emotions → fiercefatties.com

Excerpt:

OK, well, this is not actually fat-related, but we do tend to go for a side-serving of feminism in the FA realm, so I am going to hijack FFF today to discuss something that has been boiling around my head for several weeks now, ever since I noticed that my stick of Degree antiperspirant (which I buy because it really is a great product for people who are active with sports and fitness, what with the body responsive stuff that makes it work more when you are all hot and sweaty) was labeled with a sticker on the cap: “Extra responsive in emotional moments”.

WTF, Degree? You think I bought this product because I am a hyper-emotional female who cannot control herself but is super-paranoid about being stinky when I am either weeping, in abject sadness, or raging about on a hormone-fueled rampage?

Well, I didn’t…

 I bought your product, and have been buying it for years, because it MAKES ME STINK LESS WHEN I AM BUSTING MY ASS BIKING OR CLIMBING OR PLAYING DERBY OR WHATEVER!!!

It’s not anything to do with my emotional state, thanks so much.

I was, shall we say… irked about the sticker.

But then, oh then, I saw the latest advertisement for Degree for Men: Adrenaline Series!!!

It’s got a muscular, outdoorsy dude (who also wants to smell good) slapping on some Degree and then going for a mountain bike ride where the front wheel comes off his bike and he proceeds to ride down the mountain on the back wheel, going over all kinds of obstacles — because he is JUST THAT BADASS — and then finally catching up to the rolling wheel and jamming the bike back down on it and riding on down the trail. All presumably while not getting sweaty and stinky because Degree — and here’s the motto — “Protects Men Who Take Risks.”

Degree!!

Learn more at Fierce, Freethinking Fatties.

Sep 28, 2010
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Bite the Apple: In which I envy members of the fat acceptance movement. → bitetheapple.tumblr.com

bitetheapple:

I am totally in favor of body acceptance and the social activist/political movements surrounding that. Most people who are even remotely feminist are. It’s no secret that the way that the media portrays people, especially women, is crap; magazines, especially, Photoshop women who are already…

You can’t change what you are now. But you can keep talking about, keep sharing your story, keep educating others about the damage done by this culture. There’s nothing inherently wrong with having strong feelings about fatness, since it’s drilled into you since birth, practically. The fact that you recognize it, and recognize how self-destructive it is, is a step that most people with EDs never reach. So, for that, you should be proud of yourself.

There is one point of distinction I would like to make, however, and that is the difference between Fat Acceptance and Size Acceptance. Fat Acceptance is a branch of Size Acceptance, and is aimed specifically at people who are currently fat (or have been fat in the past and experienced all the emotional baggage that goes with it). Size Acceptance is more general and is about accepting your body as it is. Size Acceptance includes people, like you, who struggle with releasing those shackles of self-oppression.

The only advice I can give you is to keep struggling, keep fighting, keep questioning, keep challenging yourself to think differently about yourself, your body and your value. Read as much as you can from people who have been through a similar version of your hell. Take baby steps toward regaining control of your body because relying on the world of calorie counts and scale checks is not control.

You’re going through a difficult struggle, one that most surrender before they’ve ever really began. Stick with it, even those days when you feel like you’re back at the beginning. You will get there, I promise. And if you need help, ask for it. Fat Acceptance and Size Acceptance is most of all about community. You’re not alone.

Peace,
Shannon

Sep 28, 201019 notes
Sep 27, 2010
Please reblog, this is important. → facebook.com

miselababyy:

screamingwind:

itsmekatrina:

I just found this group on facebook and I couldn’t help but tear up as soon as I saw its photos.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=13856&id=135105716527883

If you click on it prepare to see some very graphic photos of a crazy bitch who has skinned a dog alive and has posted pictures of it. She is actually smiling while holding the poor dog and on another picture she is holding its heart.

I personally think she deserves to die a horrible painful death and honestly, if I had her here now I would kill her without second thoughts.

The title says “Death to all stray animals.”

This horrible act cannot be left unpunished. Please report this group if you can.

 fucking disgusting human beings.

 WTF! that is cruel, and so fucking harsh! this chick needs to go burn in a hole. This is just wrong. What kind of human being would ever do  that!

Kill the bitch 

I’ll reblog, but I won’t look. Sorry.

Sep 26, 20102,104 notes
Hi, I'm a cat. I don't give a shit that you're on the computer, that keyboard looks super fucking comfy.

Man, your hands look exhausted… just let me lay on them a while.

Sep 26, 2010
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randomlancila:

I wish I was beautiful.

Well that’s just greedy. You can’t be any more beautiful.

Sep 26, 20106 notes
Sep 26, 2010
Fatty Steamroller

So far this evening we have wiped out 54 fat-hating comments from this HuffPo story. 12 more to go tonight. With the four others that were deleted after this post, that will bring us to a total of 70 half-witted jabs at fatties that no longer exist because of you. YOU KICK ASS!!!

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